Hi! Sorry for taking so long to answer. It’s not a bad question, so I’ll try to answer it as concise as I can.
Well, I’m assured and often secure of who I feel I am, and that is kind of what makes me feel I can identify with my gender, romantic preference and asexuality. Of course it’s not easy to fully express any identity that’s not within the gender binarist and heteronormative society without any complications, but it won’t change what I know about me.
It’s absolutely okay to feel like you’ve fluid genders and sexuality, neither ones are fixed states. Your perception of yourself changes and it takes time and questioning to understand who you are. If you ever fully understand it, since they’re complex and abstract things. I still have some question marks about my own gender, but as I’d said earlier, it’s fine to not understand it completely. If it’s what it feels like to be you, then it probably is what you are.
I hope I made sense and could answer a bit of your question.
Hi! I actually do have a partner since one year ago.